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The Didi Journal


👯♀️ 10 Ways to Make New Friends/Didis in the Open Nest Era (Without Being Weird)
When my kids went off to college, I gave them the same pep talk every mom gives: 👉 “Be brave, smile at people, compliment someone on...

Tamara Holmes
Aug 193 min read


The Four F’s of Life (No, Not That F-Word…)
When someone mentions “the 4 F’s,” your mind might immediately wander into Rated-R territory. But no, this isn’t about “fuckety fuck...

Tamara Holmes
Aug 192 min read


The Nest is Open: Finding Your Female Tribe in This Next Chapter
Forget “empty nest.” Mine isn’t empty at all — it’s open . Wide open for new friendships, new adventures, and, most importantly, the...

Tamara Holmes
Aug 183 min read


10 Reasons Why Encouraging Your Wife to Take an Annual Women’s Retreat in Mexico Benefits the Whole Family.
“When women step away for a 4–5 night retreat, the whole family benefits. From reduced stress and fresh perspective to stronger relationships and healthier habits, here are 10 reasons why an annual women’s retreat in Mexico is an investment in everyone.”

Tamara Holmes
Aug 182 min read


Floating Sound Bath vs. Janzu: Same Water Magic, Different Journey
Both a floating sound bath and Janzu use water as the healing medium, but they create very different experiences. Floating Sound Bath 🌊...

Tamara Holmes
Aug 142 min read


Open Nesting: Redefining Freedom, Connection, and Purpose for Women Today
Tamara Feeling Open Nesting Vibes at The Cubs Game For decades, the phrase “empty nest” carried a bittersweet tone—children leaving home,...

Tamara Holmes
Aug 142 min read


Why Your Dirty Hippie Soul Demands a Bougie Retreat (and a Chef Who Knows Her Guac)
Let’s be honest, sister—you’ve done your time. You’ve been the lunchbox artist, cutting crusts and slipping in little love notes like it...

Tamara Holmes
Jun 92 min read


Grounded in Wellness: The Healing Benefits of Earthing
Grounding, or "earthing," is the simple yet powerful practice of physically connecting with the Earth’s surface—walking barefoot, lying...

Tamara Holmes
Jun 91 min read
Why Open Nesters Are Flirting with the Sober Curious Movement
Tamara after tee many martoonis Let’s face it: for years, wine was practically a food group. It got us through carpool lines, lacrosse...

Tamara Holmes
Jun 92 min read


Why Didi Retreats Are a Return to Your Authentic Self
We often lose touch with ourselves in everyday life. Didi Retreats provide a loving container to remember who you are. Through rituals,...

Tamara Holmes
Jun 91 min read


Why My Inner Carnivore Is Taking a Vacation (and Loving the Vegetarian Menu)
Confession time: I wasn’t exactly born with kale in my DNA. I’ve eaten my fair share of bacon, hot dogs at Cubs games, and the occasional...

Tamara Holmes
Jun 92 min read


Sun, Sea, and Savasana: How Nature and Yoga Heal Together
Imagine practicing yoga under palm trees with ocean breezes. At Didi Retreats, daily yoga happens under the sun, amplifying the body’s...

Tamara Holmes
Jun 91 min read


Why Sober Curious is the New Self-Care
At Didi Retreats, we like to say that nothing is mandatory—except feeling good. That’s why our retreats are alcohol-optional and proudly...

Tamara Holmes
Jun 93 min read


Sound Healing and Vibrational Medicine: Tuning Your Body Back to Balance
Everything is vibration. Sound healing uses frequencies from instruments like crystal bowls and tuning forks to bring your body into a...

Tamara Holmes
Jun 91 min read


Cacao Ceremonies: Ancient Heart Medicine for Modern Women
At every Didi Retreat, we offer ceremonial cacao experiences. Cacao, often referred to as "food of the gods," is rich in magnesium and...

Tamara Holmes
Jun 91 min read


Ladies, Step Away from the Desk (Your Brain Will Thank You)
I’ve been sitting in the same chair, at the same desk, for the last 15 years. Same view. Same keyboard. Same coffee mug that probably...

Tamara Holmes
Jun 92 min read


🌸 The Science of Sisterhood: Why Women Need Women
Beach Shenanigans Never Get Old With a DIDI Not every woman you meet is a true sister. Friendships can be casual, convenient, or...

Tamara Holmes
Jun 92 min read


Finding My “Didi” Tribe in Nepal
My OG Didi Tribe In 1993, I thought I was signing up for a trek. You know—boots, backpacks, a little cardio punishment disguised as...

Tamara Holmes
Jun 93 min read
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