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The Didi Journal


The Story of Didi Whip: Where Strength Meets Softness
Last year, my dear friend Kira - a gifted yogi, leader, and one of those rare humans who radiates fun just by being in the room - made me something special. It was her signature whipped body blend that we have all loved for years, infused with a specially curated blend for my new Didi Retreats business. It was made with so much intention and heart that it instantly became part of our Didi Retreat ritual. At my first reatreat, each guest received a jar as a welcome gift, and o
Tamara Holmes
Nov 22 min read


Meet Karla: The Heart and Hands Behind Our Table
At Didi Retreats, every detail carries intention — from the ocean air to the meals that nourish us. Meet Karla, our resident chef and artist, whose story, spirit, and banana bread have become part of San Pancho’s magic.
Tamara Holmes
Oct 183 min read


San Pancho: Where the Ocean Meets the Jungle (and Your Nervous System Finally Relaxes)
I cannot wait to tell you - and show you - San Pancho. As we move into late October, this little town by the Pacific is just starting to come alive again. You can feel it in the air - the hum of acoustic music spilling from beach cafés, the salty wind coming off the ocean, the laughter of locals reuniting after the slow summer. There’s a rhythm here that rises from both the jungle and the sea. It’s not a rush; it’s a pulse. Around every corner, something quietly extraordinary
Tamara Holmes
Oct 153 min read


Why I Made the Didi Archetypes (A Silly-Serious Love Letter to How We’re Wired)
I’m one of five daughters (we were 4 until we found out about Michelle through 23&me… and I have five daughters (2 from my loins and 3...
Tamara Holmes
Sep 223 min read


Temazcal at Didi Retreats: the quickest way to rinse off “regular life”
Travel dust. To-do lists. Kids, partners, inboxes. We love them… and we do not invite them into the first hours of retreat. At Didi...
Tamara Holmes
Sep 204 min read


The Open Nesting™ Challenge: 12 Weeks of Brave Little Steps
Week 1: Digital Detox Turn it all off—phone, laptop, TV—for a set period of time. Notice the stillness, then the relief. Open Nesting...
Tamara Holmes
Sep 122 min read


The Open Nesting™ Challenge: My Next 12 Weeks
I’m 58 years old, and for as long as I can remember, I’ve had people around me. Six kids. A husband. Friends. Colleagues. Dogs. You name...
Tamara Holmes
Sep 102 min read


Day One: Open Nesting™ with No Nest
Yesterday, I closed the door to our family home for the last time. The house where we raised six kids over the past 15 years. The house...
Tamara Holmes
Sep 83 min read


👯♀️ 10 Ways to Make New Friends/Didis in the Open Nesting™ Era (Without Being Weird)
When my kids went off to college, I gave them the same pep talk every mom gives: 👉 “Be brave, smile at people, compliment someone on...
Tamara Holmes
Aug 193 min read


The Four F’s of Life (No, Not That F-Word…)
When someone mentions “the 4 F’s,” your mind might immediately wander into Rated-R territory. But no, this isn’t about our ever so...
Tamara Holmes
Aug 192 min read


The Nest is Open: Finding Your Female Tribe in This Next Chapter
Forget “empty nest.” Mine isn’t empty at all — it’s open . Wide open for new friendships, new adventures, and, most importantly, the...
Tamara Holmes
Aug 183 min read


10 Reasons Why Encouraging Your Wife to Take an Annual Women’s Retreat in Mexico Benefits the Whole Family.
“When women step away for a 4–5 night retreat, the whole family benefits. From reduced stress and fresh perspective to stronger relationships and healthier habits, here are 10 reasons why an annual women’s retreat in Mexico is an investment in everyone.”
Tamara Holmes
Aug 182 min read


Floating Sound Bath vs. Janzu: Same Water Magic, Different Journey
Both a floating sound bath and Janzu use water as the healing medium, but they create very different experiences. Floating Sound Bath 🌊...
Tamara Holmes
Aug 142 min read


Open Nesting™: Redefining Freedom, Connection, and Purpose for Women Today
Tamara Feeling Open Nesting Vibes at The Cubs Game For decades, the phrase “empty nest” carried a bittersweet tone—children leaving home,...
Tamara Holmes
Aug 142 min read


Why Your Dirty Hippie Soul Demands a Bougie Retreat (and a Chef Who Knows Her Guac)
Let’s be honest, sister—you’ve done your time. You’ve been the lunchbox artist, cutting crusts and slipping in little love notes like it...
Tamara Holmes
Jun 92 min read


Grounded in Wellness: Why Earthing Is the Free Spa Day Your Feet Deserve
At Didi Retreats, we build grounding into our days because it is easy, it is free, and it helps you arrive in your body faster than any itinerary ever could.
Tamara Holmes
Jun 94 min read


Why Open Nesters Are Flirting with the Sober Curious Movement
Why Open Nesters™ Are Flirting with the Sober Curious Movement
Tamara Holmes
Jun 92 min read


Why Every Woman Deserves a Retreat (Yes, You!) 🌙
Let’s be honest—we’ve been running households, raising kids, juggling careers, showing up for everyone else, and somewhere along the way,...
Tamara Holmes
Jun 92 min read


Why My Inner Carnivore Is Taking a Vacation (and Loving the Vegetarian Menu)
Confession time: I wasn’t exactly born with kale in my DNA. I’ve eaten my fair share of bacon, hot dogs at Cubs games, and the occasional...
Tamara Holmes
Jun 92 min read


Sun, Sea, and Savasana: How Nature and Yoga Heal Together
Imagine practicing yoga under palm trees with ocean breezes. At Didi Retreats, daily yoga happens under the sun, amplifying the body’s...
Tamara Holmes
Jun 91 min read
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